Why Being One on One with Girl/Boy Scares Me

Are you a girl who’s afraid of boys? Or, are you a boy who’s afraid of girls? Are you wondering, “Why being one on one with girl/boy scares me?” Having a fear of the opposite sex is not uncommon; no need to feel hopeless. You may get through it, only if you’re willing to put real effort.

Many people think they have a phobia of theopposite sex while they’re actually scared about being left alone with opposite sex. If your case is “Why being one on one with girl/boy scares me,” then notice what makes you scared. Is it the fact that she/he might pay attention to you, and you’re unsure how to react? Or is it the fact that she/he might do something that hurts you, and you’re unsure you can win over them?

If it’s the former, then what you’re experiencing maybe a case of shyness, resulting from low self-confidence, or not used to being around the opposite sex. What you can do is improving yourself to be more confident, and familiarizing yourself with being around girls/boys. But, if it’s the latter, what you’re experiencing is self insecurity resulting from bad experience, either mental or physical, mixed with trust-issue. This can be reduced by making peace with your past, trusting others more, and at the same time making yourself mentally stronger. If it involves heavy traumas, then you should ask support from others; it can be professionals, or the close people you really love and trust.

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Why Being One on One with Girl/Boy Scares Me Are you a girl who’s afraid of boys? Or, are you a boy who’s afraid of girls? Are you wondering, “Why being one on one with girl/boy scares me?” Having a fear of the opposite sex is not uncommon; no need...